Are you a priority or an option. Isn’t priority an option that one places its importance ahead of other options. For years I had prioritized others before self. I was willing because it was family. What hit me the hardest was at my most difficult, this family disintegrated. I was very hurt.
In my new journey, I am learning to love myself more, not in the lines of self indulgence or admiration like a narcissist, but to at least value my own worth and give myself the due respect. And in the process of doing so, I guess I am happier now.